Non-Fiction

Will Smith's Apology:"Love Will Make You Do Crazy Things"

First Published in EQ Iris Dating Even if you didn't watch the Oscars (as I did not), Will Smith smacked Chris Rock and then swore at him...

"We Were on A Break!" Is there such a thing as a break?

First published by EQ Iris Dating You're likely familiar with the line in the '90s show Friends where Rachel is furious with Ross for...

"Your Disability Doesn't Define You" is not an encouragement

First published by EQ Iris Dating I'm not sure how common it is for others, but I've experienced receiving the "encouragement" your...

Financial Fitness Did More for My Mental Health Than Therapy

First Published on HealthyRich A week before I turned 30, I went to a new counselor. I’d been to therapy before — when I was in high...

How To Tell if You're Being Treated like a Charity Case

First Published in EQ Iris Dating As a latecomer to dating, I wish someone had explicitly told me that people have different goals for...

The Impacts of Telling Disabled Daters to "Just be Happy being Single"

First published by EQ Iris Dating If you've spent time in the dating world, you've likely heard the advice to "just be happy being...

Dating While Disabled During and After Covid

First Published on EQ Iris Dating If you're disoriented just trying to navigate regular life, you're not alone. It's not just the level...

Can Anything Good Come Out of Therapy?

First published on Mad in America. I used to think therapy could be beneficial if only you went through the trials of finding a good...

Dating for the First Time in your 30s

Originally published on EQ Iris Dating You may feel behind. You may feel clueless. You may feel frantic. You may feel like no good people...