First Published on EQ Iris Dating If you're disoriented just trying to navigate regular life, you're not alone. It's not just the level of change society has undergone the past two years or how fast that change has happened. It's the fact that pandemic policies differ wildly depending on where you are in the US — not just by state, but by county . Two counties that are a 30-minute drive apart can be miles apart ideologically; this makes it even harder to connect with people